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Saturday, March 31, 2007

I Confess

Today's post is part of the Blog Exchange.
Special thanks to Jessica for her confession.


I Confess

I think I am a very average mom. I do some things very well and others I don't do at all. I am usually fine with this, but every so often I feel the need to apologize, or at least confess.


· I confess that my toddler only gets a bath every other day, if that.
· I confess that I have, more than once, just cleaned her from head to toe with wipes because it was just too late for a "real" bath
· I confess that we don't have a night time routine, per-se.
· I confess that I have NO intention of taking my daughter's pacifier away from her when she turns two.
· I confess that we sometimes eat at McDonalds and that C gets her own Happy Meal. (With fries, not apples.)
· I confess that I don't mind sending C to daycare, and I fully plan on sending this next child as well, even if I don't work full time. (Or even part time. HA!)
· I confess that if I have an unexpected day off I still send C to daycare and take a personal day for myself.
· I confess that sometimes I get out of work early, but I still pick C up at the appointed time. I relish that time alone.
· I confess that I don't plan on sending C to preschool until she's three. I think she's getting everything she needs socially and educationally from her daycare.
· I confess that I sometimes lie to C about what I'm eating so that I won't have to share with her.
· I confess that some evenings C's bedtime is a little earlier than usual, because I just need it to be.
· I confess that I don't use those plastic table liners and just put C's food directly on restaurant tables.
· I confess that I never obsessed about giving C non bleached flour, or no processed sugar, or anything like that.
· I confess that a lot of what C eats for dinner comes out of the freezer.


I confess that I'm not the most obsessive, overbearing, over hovering mom. But I have to say when we sit at a restaurant and I watch my 22 month old daughter spoon feeding herself spaghetti, when she says "bless you" when someone sneezes, when she never forgets to say please and thank you, when she shows incredible compassion to people who are hurting or crying, basically when I see what a generally wonderful person she is becoming, well then I have to confess that I might be doing something right.

This was a guest post written by Rose at It's My Life... in honor of this month's blog exchange.

When I'm not busy working, cooking, or running after my toddler, C, I'm usually hiding in the bathroom thinking up my next blog post or trying to read a chapter or two of the book I'm currently reading. When I do come up with something witty to write about, you can read it here (though I have to apologize, the baby within seems to have swallowed most of the wit these day) where your usual blogger extraordinaire is blogging today.

Go on over and read her post and don't forget to check out all the other blog exchange posts this month!

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14 Comments:

Blogger Lara said...

great post. there were some of those confessions that i already know i'll do with my kids someday, even though i don't have them yet. i really enjoyed reading that. :)

March 31, 2007 11:00:00 PM PDT

 
Blogger cce said...

You have company. I can admit to many of those things and more as my daily posts always seem to be some sort of hand wringing confession or another.
It feels good to come clean though doesn't it?

April 1, 2007 5:53:00 AM PDT

 
Anonymous chelle said...

You are so not alone ... well maybe with the honesty part but really I think most mothers if truly honest could confess to a lot!

Great post!

April 1, 2007 6:37:00 AM PDT

 
Blogger Jodi said...

Great post. I do a lot of the same things. I think Moms would get along much better if everyone just admitted these things and stopped trying to be perfect!

April 1, 2007 7:42:00 AM PDT

 
Blogger Amy Jo said...

If we didn't cut some corners or take some time for ourselves, we would most likely end up being horrible mothers. It sounds like you're doing a pretty great job!

April 1, 2007 9:20:00 AM PDT

 
Blogger ECR said...

This should be a meme. I think if we all tried this exercise we'd discover that most of our "confessions" are regular parts of a whole lotta moms' lives.

April 1, 2007 10:31:00 AM PDT

 
Blogger tiffany said...

We should all confess more often.

Who wants to be perfect after all?

April 1, 2007 11:03:00 AM PDT

 
Blogger soccer mom in denial said...

If it were a meme I would just cut and paste this list and claim it as my own. Thank you for making me feel less alone in the confessions department!

April 1, 2007 11:03:00 AM PDT

 
Anonymous nutmeg said...

THANK YOU for this post! I so appreciate your honesty. Puts things right into perspective. I too forgive myself for being far from perfect, move on, and defrost.

April 1, 2007 12:15:00 PM PDT

 
Blogger Life As I Know It said...

Oh, I think we all do everything you listed!!

Great post!

April 1, 2007 1:56:00 PM PDT

 
Blogger Janet a.k.a. "Wonder Mom" said...

I confess, I do most of that stuff too...I think we are normal...

Great post. And so very real...

April 1, 2007 5:46:00 PM PDT

 
Blogger Alex Elliot said...

Do you live in MA? Do you want to get our kids together for playdate? :) The eating off the table one cracked me up in particular because yesterday my husband and I considered feeling like bad parents for about a half a second when we were at a restaurant with the kids until we both remembered that our older son always ate off the table at restaurants and was just fine.

April 1, 2007 7:12:00 PM PDT

 
Blogger Rose said...

Thank you everyone for your awesome comments, and thank you Amanda for hosting my post today!

April 1, 2007 9:20:00 PM PDT

 
Blogger Heather said...

I do all those things too.

Congrats on the best of BE.

April 4, 2007 7:35:00 PM PDT

 

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