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Sunday, December 28, 2008

A Tentative Update and Forceful Thanks

This will be brief as I don't want to muddy anything with emotional meandering.

Your thanks, via your comments, emails and attendance surpassed anything I had imagined might happen when I pressed publish. Eight days have passed and while we hear utterings like, "out of the woods" and "recovery," there is still worry.

Dennis—dad, husband, son, uncle, friend, has been hearing your comments and, as I am told by his daughter Erin, has smiled at the notion of a post about him. The idea of that smile and of something other than the color of the walls and the sterility of the environment to talk about, makes me feel as if together we accomplished something.

As for concrete things to update, Dennis was extubated late last week and is able to breathe on his own. He took a hell of a beating from the truck and has had significant pain to cope with, one part of which is a kind of damage to his leg that has had specialists scratching their heads, weighing whether to operate or not.

Friday night they finally arrived at the decision to operate. He was transferred, via ambulance, nearly two hours to the hospital with the most qualified orthopedic trauma surgeon. We have no date for surgery, nor a solid timeline to recovery, but we do have this;

Dennis.

We also have specialists joining the circle of people hoping, wishing and praying for his return to health. So on the eve of a New Year and what I hope will be the start of renewed health for Dennis, I thank you— we thank you. Your words, your visits and your emails have simply meant the world.

My hope will be to publish photos here later to share with you the image of a beaming Dennis as he walks his Erie down the aisle.

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16 Comments:

Blogger flutter said...

love you and yours, sweet Amanda

December 28, 2008 10:24:00 PM PST

 
Blogger Heather said...

Good to hear there is improvement.

December 28, 2008 10:44:00 PM PST

 
Blogger Woman in a Window said...

in the face of it all we do what we can and and all that we can is hope and pray.

hope the circle stays strong

moved by his (so far, in part) recovery

December 29, 2008 5:50:00 AM PST

 
Blogger Chaotic Joy said...

I am so glad he had made progress.

December 29, 2008 6:18:00 AM PST

 
OpenID tysdaddy said...

Sounds like baby steps are being taken in the right direction. As you probably realize, rushing things will do no one any good. My thoughts are with the doctors and family as they make the decisions and weight options.

Be blessed, my friend . . .

December 29, 2008 8:12:00 AM PST

 
Blogger Amy said...

Great to hear of the progress. Best wishes with the surgery and recovery. Sending huge hugs to all of you this new year.

December 29, 2008 8:34:00 AM PST

 
Blogger Chibi said...

I just read your previous entry -- I can't imagine how scary that must have been for all of you. I'm glad to hear he's improving. Many positive thoughts coming to all of you.

*hugs*

December 29, 2008 9:32:00 AM PST

 
Blogger Brian and Staci said...

Just checking in...glad to hear there is hope!!! Will continue to pray for Dennis....and oh I do pray that he'll be able to walk his daughter down that aisle :) Tell him I said, "HI!!!" from Oklahoma!!!!

December 29, 2008 1:54:00 PM PST

 
Blogger Lisa said...

I came here via Flutter, stayed to read, and now feel like I could hang out forever. My best wishes for Dennis' speedy recovery.

December 29, 2008 2:59:00 PM PST

 
Blogger BetteJo said...

All the good wishes and prayers and healing thoughts are still going Dennis' way. Dennis's? :) Still encircling him.

December 29, 2008 8:37:00 PM PST

 
Blogger jen said...

That Dennis. He's good, that one.

December 29, 2008 10:30:00 PM PST

 
Blogger Patois said...

I will continue to include Dennis in my prayers.

December 30, 2008 7:51:00 AM PST

 
Blogger Kelly said...

I'm so glad to hear this. I saw your initial post on Dennis the other day and then got pulled away by a child who had stubbed her toe. In my head, though, I prayed.

He sounds like one tough dude.

December 30, 2008 1:11:00 PM PST

 
Blogger Lisa Wheeler Milton said...

Such sweet words, full of hope. Tentative, but breathing.

He's still in my prayers.

January 1, 2009 4:15:00 PM PST

 
Blogger Damselfly said...

I'm so glad to hear Dennis was heartened by your post and the well wishes there. I hope he continues to get better!

January 4, 2009 7:22:00 PM PST

 
Blogger abbyjess said...

Glad to hear some tentatively better news. I hope and pray there is much more to come b/c he sounds like the kind of man we need more of in this world.

January 5, 2009 10:59:00 AM PST

 

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